You're exhausted and in pain from non-stop, repetitive arguments with your partner. Or maybe you’re both so worn out from fighting that you retreated to opposite ends of the house. You're smart and competent and you're a good problem-solver, but when it comes to your relationship, you're totally stuck. All you know is that it can't go on the way it is. You're beginning to worry this relationship can't be salvaged, and you're terrified what that might mean. Do you really have to start all over?