The cause of grief isn’t loss, it’s love. And the task of grief isn’t to heal, it’s to remember and honor. The challenge is that our society tells us grief is something to be avoided or dealt with as quickly and cleanly as possible. We tend to run from grief and isolate grievers. And that makes sense. Losing someone you love is devastating. No one wants that to ever happen, few even want to be reminded that it does happen. Still, our society’s attitude toward grief can be very hurtful. The hard